Feeling a bit lonely, need some new mates or just fancy trying a different way to socialise? Then join our Discord server and hang out online, maybe find people to game with and share some silliness.
Bring your best self (or your lazy self, we don’t judge) and your best “I am totally a social butterfly - honest!” attitude.
Come along to an in-person event to sign up.
If you are new to Discord, it's free and easy to set up visit www.discord.com
TAG is all about creating a safe, supportive, and empowering space for young people — but it’s not one-size-fits-all. Before you join us online, here’s what to think about to see if TAG feels right for you.
To be part of TAG, you’ll need to:
Most importantly, you’ll need to understand why things like keeping your personal info private, respecting boundaries, and treating people with kindness really matter. If that all sounds like your vibe, then welcome — TAG might be just the place for you to connect, grow, and be your authentic self.
If you’re not quite there yet, we can point you toward other amazing groups that could be a better fit for where you’re at right now. Discord is not suitable for everyone so we may not issue an invite or may remove members.
TAG is here to help you find your tribe, be your best self and 'Bring your A Game!' — when the time feels right.
Info for parents/carers about how we manage the server.
Staff with access to young people all hold EDBS certification and server security is set to its highest level. It is a private server that people can only join if they have been given a unique code or are invited by staff.
Auto-moderation (Bots) filter harmful or undesirable messages and content at all times by for example, blocking messages, muting members, issuing bans and timeouts.
Bots react quickly and fairly and protect our time - we cannot watch every message as it is posted. TAG staff can see communication between members in all text channels but AutoMod takes care of the simple things.
Human moderators
We have rules and guidelines that all members agree to when they join us and these are actioned by volunteers.
It’s important that TAG moderation remains as fair and consistent as possible. We hold everyone in our community to the same standard, regardless of who they are or their history so if members repeatedly use the server inappropriately they will be removed.
Discord allows for the monitoring of all text channels within the server but staff cannot see all communication between members. We cannot monitor voice channels where young people are chatting in-person or direct messages (DMs). Staff can intervene if DM activity is reported but cannot access DMs between members so please consider the communication needs or differences of your young person before signing them up.


Online games and safe online communities allow you to connect with peers in a controlled and often less overwhelming environment. Even micro-interactions, sending a like or a gif can help reduce feelings of isolation and foster connection.

Chat channels and games often require communication and coordination with teammates or group members. Chatting with people who communicate in a similar way means you can be yourself. Moderators can point out miscommunication and give direction.

Gaming and socialising in an online community can serve as a coping mechanism for managing stress and anxiety. Immersion in games can provide a distraction from external stressors and help you relax. Having a space to find people who relate to your personal experiences can also help reduce stress.

Many video games involve strategy, problem solving, understanding mechanics, coding, concentration, persistence, creativity, memory, languages, maths etc. This can be a motivating and enjoyable way to acquire new knowledge and skills often without realising. Socialising with different people with differing viewpoints requires consideration, adaptability and empathy. Positive peer interaction can help build confidence, cognitive and social skills.

Some games can be relaxing and calming. They may help emotional regulation and can directly impact mood & be a distraction. Shared experiences allow you to explore/accept who you are and find strategies that may help.

When you’ve got a safe space to talk about what you’re into, it’s easier to find people who like the same thing or want to learn about it. Inclusive communities welcome sharing interests whatever that may be, as long as it i s not harmful and age appropriate.
Online safety is a top priority for TAG. Connection matters, but it should always be safe and informed. Young people are encouraged to chat only with friends they know in real life or with people who are part of trusted, verified communities. If someone cannot be clearly identified or verified, it is best not to engage.
Everyone experiences gaming and online spaces differently. What feels fun and energising for one person might feel overwhelming to another. Parents, carers, and young people should choose games and online groups that feel safe, well moderated, and right for them.
Disagreements and misunderstandings can also happen, which is why it is important to stay in communities that are positively managed, respectful, and focused on creating a welcoming environment for everyone.

Our online moderators help facilitate positive interaction and provide appropriate guidance whilst enforcing community rules.

We have established clear and simple guidelines for the group, to ensure that everyone understands the expectations for behaviour and communication.

Members can share their hobbies and interests, talents, and achievements to help build connection and foster a sense of belonging.
No pressure, no judgement!

Members and staff share professional resources and their own personal tips and tricks to relax and feel better in our 'helpful stuff' channels.

We share up-to-date, relevant resources about neurodivergence and welcome chat about life experience as well as sharing fun neurodivergent memes online.
The A Game - Charity No.1215263
Based in Wolsingham, County Durham, North East England.