how we manage TAG Discord
Info for parents/carers about how we manage the server.
Staff with access to young people all hold EDBS certification and server security is set to its highest level. It is a private server that people can only join if they have been given a unique code or are invited by staff.
Auto-moderation (Bots) filter harmful or undesirable messages and content at all times by for example, blocking messages, muting members, issuing bans and timeouts.
Bots react quickly and fairly and protect our time - we cannot watch every message as it is posted. TAG staff can see communication between members in all text channels but AutoMod takes care of the simple things.
Human moderators
We have rules and guidelines that all members agree to when they join us and these are actioned by Bots and volunteers.
We try to get to know our members and some situations may require more in-depth management. For example, if someone posts something they shouldn’t, they may simply need a reminder of the rules or they may need support if they are in distress and their post was a result of frustration. It’s important that TAG moderation remains as fair and consistent as possible. We hold everyone in our community to the same standard, regardless of who they are or their history so if members repeatedly use the server inappropriately they will be removed but sometimes young people are reaching out.
Discord allows for the monitoring of all text channels within the server but staff cannot see all communication between members. We cannot monitor voice channels where young people are chatting in-person or direct messages (DMs). Staff can intervene if DM activity is reported but cannot access DMs between members.
benefits of gaming & socialising with peers online
Social Interaction
Communication Skills
Communication Skills
Online games and safe online communities allow you to connect with peers in a controlled and often less overwhelming environment. Even micro-interactions, sending a like or a gif can help reduce feelings of isolation and foster friendships.
Communication Skills
Communication Skills
Communication Skills
Chat channels and games often require communication and coordination with teammates or group members. Chatting with people who communicate in a similar way means you can be yourself.
Stress Relief
Communication Skills
Cognitive Skills
Gaming and socialising in an online community can serve as a coping mechanism for managing stress and anxiety. Immersion in games can provide a distraction from external stressors and help you relax. Having a space to find people who relate to your personal experiences can also help reduce stress.
Cognitive Skills
Therapeutic Experience
Cognitive Skills
Many video games require problem-solving, strategic thinking and quick decision-making. Socialising with different people with differing viewpoints requires consideration, adaptability and empathy. Engaging in these activities (or watching others engage) can help build confidence, cognitive and social skills.
Therapeutic Experience
Therapeutic Experience
Therapeutic Experience
Some games can be relaxing and calming. They may help emotional regulation and can directly impact mood & be a distraction. Shared experiences allow you to explore/accept who you are and find strategies that may help.
Inclusive Environment
Therapeutic Experience
Therapeutic Experience
Online communities can feel way more inclusive and welcoming, giving you a space where people value you for who you are—not how you look, act, or what makes you different. When a community genuinely cares and gets you, it can feel like the place you finally fit in, without having to force it.
Interest-Based Engagement
Interest-Based Engagement
When you’ve got a safe space to talk about what you’re into, it’s easier to find people who like the same thing or want to learn about it.
Educational benefits
Interest-Based Engagement
Some games incorporate educational elements. Many involve strategy, problem solving, understanding mechanics, coding, concentration, persistence, creativity, memory, languages, maths etc. This can be a motivating and enjoyable way to acquire new knowledge and skills often without realising.
#Note
#Note
Everyone’s different, so people may not react the same way to gaming or spending time online. It’s a good idea for parents, carers, and young people to choose games or groups that feel like the right fit for them.
Sometimes multiplayer games can feel a bit much, and that’s totally normal—taking a break and giving yourself time to reset can really help. Disagreements and misunderstandings can pop up too, so it’s best to stick with communities that have good moderation and aim to keep things positive and welcoming.